Guess what, I text him.
I pause, not sure of what to text back. I could talk about the bubbling worry inside of me, but I already did that so much. We talked about my anxiety yesterday. He can’t keep being the only person I shout my worries to.
But I could tell him. I could text, I think I need to change the tense of my whole novel. Not many people like the present tense, which is strange to me. I’ve never had that problem before. And— No. I can’t text that. Instead, I text something along the lines of, I’m almost done with this TV show. It’s pretty cool. You should check it out. One of the side characters doesn’t even have a neck.
I’m not sure when I started double guessing whether I should tell people about my writing struggles. I guess it started in high school since I got more serious about publishing then. But everyone kept repeating how I wouldn’t be able to afford to live as a writer. Writers don’t get paid that much. It’s not like you’ll become famous either.
That’s when I stopped. Instead of giving them the joy of being right, I stopped talking.
When I think through what I need to do, it can sound like I’m complaining. It’s easy to tell when my friends are losing interest when I “complain.” Their word count diminishes to okay or yeah.
I still worry about complaining too much even though it doesn’t bother my friends as much as I think it does. Sometimes, I’ll ask for permission before I even mention my writing. Other times, I’ll stop typing and think back to the last time I complained to them. If it was recent, I’ll delete the message. Sometimes I’ll delete it after I press send, so I don’t have to see the message stare back at me when they don’t reply fast.
On days I don’t tell them, my muscles are tense. I write out everything I can think of that could fix my writing. I pace as if that’ll help me think of a quicker answer.
I don’t know how to cure it. I wish I did. But perhaps, you have this too. Maybe you worry too much about editing or complaining too much. If you do, know that you’re not alone. I understand.
2 thoughts on “Writing worries”
Maybe the cure is either to stop worrying what they think, or having it straight out with them!
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Perhaps that can be the cure. I’m always worried what others think, so that’d be hard for me. But I can see how it helps. Perhaps I can try that out next time.
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